If the past hurts, so does the future. Both hurt, because they can neither be altered nor created respectively. That is why it is important to see the life from a different perspective.
Have you ever thought why everything hurts?
“Because we allow it.” But, that’s not the conclusion.
Allowing is important, as it would help us to experience the transformation. Accepting is the sign of strength that yield perception.
They say- “Ignorance is a bliss.” Although it is convincing up to some extent. However, as per my understanding, “Awareness is life.” and the aim of life is to experience everything with conscious choices. This is the wiser way of looking at our world.
Everything seems right in certain way, but we need to choose the one that creates more common sense.
That said, as life is unpredictable, in some cases we don’t have the opportunity to choose. Everything happens as it supposed to be. Therefore, in those circumstances we need to understand that, being hurt is never a choice but the way of life.
Everything that hurts us has a significant connection with us.
It hurts because we care, and we care as it is the wave of love.
Pain, anxieties, fears, insecurities and every negativity energy make us to realize the Subtle vibrations of nature towards the life.
When we become sensitive towards life, we start to understand, aware, respect, and reason every event with a clarity. And respond wisely with no intention to hurt anyone’s feelings as we know the essence of life’s sensitive side.
We need to rise our standards by developing the empathetic skills towards each other. In such a way the connection of our existence attain the stage of transparency. Where everyone’s speech and actions begin to reflect on the similar dreams.
The simple way to deal with the life’s hardships is by thinking life is a beautiful journey where everything has its own essence.
Each thing makes sense, when we are not consumed by the depth of its uncertainties and space of their complexity. But, learn to realize the repercussion of our actions and back off at the necessary time in order to save ourselves from its undefined abyss.
In order to survive from the most unexpected episodes of our life, It is essential to adapt abstract thinking to see life from every angle and understand the actuality in it.
The pain of the past cannot be altered but can be mastered.
The fear of the future cannot be ignored, but has to be encountered.
We cannot change the past as it was passed, and we cannot create future as it will be always in the future.
We can’t be hurt by the things that we have no longer power to control.
Instead, It’s more than imporatant to realize that Memories of the past and the visions of the future are the destiny in the present.
Focus on the moment irrespective of the trail then soon there comes a time, we perceive that every breath is a destiny and rest is just an illusion. That’s what matters “Realization.”