100 Questions to fall in love (including proven 36 questions that lead to love)

By: Naveen B

Finding moments to connect and speak about your feelings can feel difficult, especially if both people are new to each other.

But it doesn’t have to be this way: there are 100 questions to fall in love including a list of scientifically proven 36 questions that lead to love as per New York Times.

If the chances are, you’ve met someone special. But that person doesn’t know what they have till they lose it.

A great way to kick-start communication again is to ask each other these thought-provoking questions about your relationship, dating life, and love for each other.

If you feel nervous about asking these questions, remember that you don’t have to answer the question out loud if you don’t want to!

This list of 100 questions to fall in love helps you to improve communication, connection, intimacy and eventually lead to love. This approach can be fun and playful, but is often deep and touching

So, read till the end and use them to your potential partner. Good luck.

100 Questions to fall in love


The following Three sets of 36 questions that lead to love are the part of 100 questions to ask that make you fall in love.

36 Questions to fall in love

Here is a list of scientifically designed 36 questions to fall in love:

SET 1:

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Also read: 350+ Questions about love that make you think deeply

SET 2:

One of the most important things to know about someone else is what brings them joy in life; yet it’s also something we too often take for granted and assume we know because they do all sorts of happy things every day.

If you have found love with an individual, try asking them some questions that lead to deeper affection and more intimacy in your relationship.

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

Also read: 100+ Philosophical questions on love to ponder about.

SET 3:

If you aren’t connecting with your partner as much as you would like to, this might be because each of you have your own unique process when it comes to how you connect.

In order to deepen the intimacy between you two, you can ask these questions that will lead to love and affection between the two of you.

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … “

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

Questions to make you fall in love


The following list is a part of 100 Questions to make you fall in love:

37. What can’t you wait to experience together?

38. If your partner were to offer you only one piece of advice, what would it be?

39. What has been the happiest day of your life so far?

40. Imagine your partner coming home from work, smiling at you across the room. You go to meet them but halfway there they’re attacked by two muggers who demand their wallet and cell phone. You happen to be armed – what do you do?

41. What are some of your pet peeves?

42. What, if anything, shocks you?

43. What makes you laugh?

And cry?

44. If you could choose what to come back as in your next life, what would it be?

45. What trait do you most admire in others?

46. What is your greatest fear?

47. What is the quality you most like in yourself?

48. Which words or phrases do you most overuse?

49. What color best describes your personality?

50. What brings you joy?

51. Is there anything you’ve done in your life that you regret?

52. What profession other than your own would you like to attempt?

53. What is your favorite occupation, when you’re not working?

54. If you couldn’t live where you live now, where would you like to live?

55. What keeps you up at night?

Deep Questions that lead to love


Are you looking to intensify your connection with a loved one? You are not alone. This can be a big challenge when you are in a relationship with someone you care about.

Here is another part of 100 questions that lead to love. These questions you can ask them to increase mutual affection.

56. What’s your favorite thing to see in the sky?

57. What are you most afraid of?

58. What do you enjoy doing in your spare time?

59. What’s your favorite food?

60. Where would you like to retire?

61. If you were given $5,000 right now, what would you do with it?

62. Does society reward what is right or what is productive?

63. What country would you most like to visit, other than your own country?

64. If you could be born again, would you want to change your name?

65. Would you want to change your gender?

66. Would you want to stay an only child?

67. Would you want to grow up in a different era?

68. What qualities do you look for in a friend?

69. How many friends do you have?

70. Are there any occupations that particularly interest you at the moment?

71. Do these questions remind you of your friends and family?

72. What is your idea of perfect happiness?

73. What, if anything, is currently making you sad?

74. What are your three wishes?

75. Share one weird fact about yourself 76. What is your least favorite word?

77. What turns you on and off?

78. If you could change one thing about your physical appearance, what would it be?

79. Describe a scenario that made you happy and sad?

Intimate Questions to ask to fall in love


If you are looking for intimate and emotional love with someone, then here are engaging questions to ask which will yield fruitful results for your emotional and intimate needs.

Here is the rest of 100 questions to ask to fall in love:

80. Who was your first kiss?

81. What song gets you pumped?

82. What annoys you?

83. What annoys your partner?

84. What reminds you of your childhood?

85. Can you describe in one sentence what your relationship means to you?

86. Would you like to give birth, adopt, or both (specify)?

87. When did you know this person was the one?

88. Did this person tell you they loved you first, or did you say it first?

89. How do you decide whom to trust?

90. What’s your philosophy of life?

91.How often do you call your parents, grandparents, siblings, etc.?

97. If there was something important to tell your parents, grandparents, siblings, etc., but nobody knew how to reach them, what would it be?

98. What tradition do you follow the most from the roots of your culture?

99. What’s your secret talent that nobody knows about?

100. What makes you move forward in life and how does that inspire others in your life?

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