Can you feel your soulmate before you meet them?

By: Naveen B

We’ve all heard the old saying, “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone.” This is especially true when it comes to relationships.

The same goes for “you don’t know what you will have until you get it;” you can’t truly understand what makes a person feel one’s soulmate before meeting them.

Love is a complicated thing. But believing in soulmates is much more complex. Sometimes love comes easily, and sometimes it doesn’t.

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as-And in between, we all experience highs and lows — days when you feel like the luckiest person on the planet, and days when you begin to reason all sorts of existential questions such as-

Whether soulmates really exist. If so, why didn’t I find one? 

Can you feel your soulmate before you meet them? 

Can you see them in your dreams?

How to find your soulmate? 

Do I really find my soulmate in this lifetime? And the list goes on.

But don’t give up hope if your romantic pursuits have gone nowhere.

Research suggests that people are able to develop a stronger sense of their ideal mate’s personality before they even meet them, based on their experiences with friends and family members who are similar to them.

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According to a study by Columbia University, people tend to prefer partners who are similar to them in many ways.

Likewise, research published by the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan found that people tend to marry people who are more like them than different from them.

These findings suggest that individuals are better able to perceive differences among partners before they become romantically involved with them, which suggests that it’s possible for this sense of compatibility to influence relationship quality early on in dating.

So, let’s go deep into this subject in this post:

Can you feel your soulmate before you meet them?


Yes. It’s possible. You may not know exactly what that someone is going to be like physically, but you can sense whether they’re your soulmate right away — and it’s this instinctive knowledge of people that we call “intuition.”

Your intuition is a key part of your understanding that you’re supposed to be with this person.

If you think about it, there’s a reason why you feel chemistry with someone else. It has something to do with energy and attraction, but it also has to do with your intuition, knowing what makes a soulmate a soulmate.

This is a very powerful experience for many people, but it’s important to note that everyone’s reaction can be very different.

You can instinctively realize whether someone is destined to be your soulmate or not, just by reflecting on yourself and feeling their energies and vibrations in your mind.

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You can do that because you are trying to manifest energies that are like yours. That’s what a soulmate is. It’s all about –

  • mutual energies,
  • vibration,
  • synchronicity,
  • harmony,
  • connection, and
  • attachment.

So, how exactly can you feel your soulmate before you meet them?

You might say that you’re not a psychic, but you can certainly feel certain things about people.

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Look at it this way, during your lifetime, after interacting with so many people, you stored crucial information in your brain such as characteristics, qualities, and moments of some people that made you attracted to them or naturally connected to them. 

Thus, based on your memory, experiences, and intuitive vision, you involuntarily know how your soulmate is going to be.

All of this happens subconsciously. It tries to prevent us from making mistakes, but if it fails, something else triggers: Fear. We are protected by avoiding those irrational fears that tell us to avoid those “wrong” people.

These may be people who have no sense for us or deceive us by saying that they love us the same amount we love them.

If you’re looking for your soulmate, you’re not looking for any specific person; rather, you’re looking for –

  • Someone who fits into your life naturally without forcing themselves into it. 
  • You want someone who is there for you even when you are least expecting it.
  • You are searching for a partner who will stick by your side through thick and thin.
  • Someone who will be there for you when times are good and bad.
  • Someone who will always be there for you, no matter what. 

You want to find that one person who makes sense when he walks in the room and feels like he fits perfectly into your life like pieces of a puzzle. 

When they walk away, you miss them immediately and wish they were back in your life again; this is when the connection begins to grow stronger. 

When you know how your soulmate thinks, feels, and acts before you meet them, this is one of the real signs you are about to meet your soulmate as you emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually prepared yourself for the meeting. 

You are searching for a soulmate who is already in your subconscious mind, irrespective of their physical characteristics. That’s how you can feel your soulmate before you meet them.

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1 thought on “Can you feel your soulmate before you meet them?”

  1. How is that I can see a future with this girl that I like so clearly and I’m not even in a relationship with her but we do talk but with the other girls that I used to like I couldn’t see a future with them well


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