Last updated on April 6th, 2021 at 05:24 am
What do you want in life?
Is it to become the next Elon Musk of this generation or late CEO of Apple, the greatest inspiration of many innovative minds – “Mr. Steve Jobs” what do you want in life?
Who do you want to become?
No goal is small. Your dreams are your personality, wear them as your armour and work the hell out for them until you feel proud of whom you have become.
No single person in this world has no dreams as per my observation.
So, what is it stopping you from chasing your dreams?
Is it the nature of reality that is scaring you the life out of you to go after your visions?
Or is it the level of your confidence in yourself or the people around you making you feel left behind?
What do you want to do with your life?
Ask yourself all the necessary questions, if you think you have any. Great solutions will evolve with the righteous questions and the ability to allow the problems and the mindset to solve them with patience.
At some point in our lives we all have to pass the ocean of negativity in order to sense the single lifesaving drop of positivity.
In fact these all are not the reasons to stop ourselves from becoming what we want and meant to be. These unfortunate conditions help us to shape ourselves to be unique with no such question of failure. Indeed these situations motivate us to take bold decisions.
7 Things that stop you to go after what do you want in life.
1. No clarity in life
Be aware of what you think and how you think. Thoughts are our power and dreams are our future. Having no vision is fine, but you can develop it by thinking what you can do now to create your future. Clarity comes from knowing who you are. Understand yourself better, before starting anything or start doing now so that you can discover yourself in the process.
2. Lack of Belief and faith
If you think your Belief is your fate, yes it is! But you need to replace your cynical beliefs with your positive motives, then the faith you keep in your belief will ultimately turn into the fruitful fate that you are desiring for.
3. Lack of self-confidence and insecurities.
We often stand at the top position in considering the negative effects of anything no matter even if people come forward with genuine intentions. It’s not that every person is genuinely inspirational but the real potential rests in the way you perceive and allow the things and transform them into something that can be useful for your growth.
4. Lack of social skills
If you consider every person in your life who makes you feel low but you know how to respond, then people are not your weakness they are the true source of your inspiration to achieve your strength.
5. Taking no risks in life
We often cease ourselves to take further steps to reach our goals is by compromising for the things which we don’t intend to. Scarification should have a valid foundation. If you compromise for problems that are temporary there is no point in scarifying your future.
6. Not seeing possibilities and ignoring opportunities.
No matter what, we always will have the baggage of issues with us. But not the opportunities. The only opportunity we have is the time and the present moment. We have more possibilities than we think. Realize time is everything. Use every moment to create the opportunities and build your future.
7. Fear of reality
If you think reality is stopping you from chasing your dreams, yes it is! Because you wanted to be controlled by your thoughts not the world around you. Reality is not the limitation it is an inspiration that makes you think beyond and act fearlessly.
If you start seeing your problems from the other side of the universe you will realize how small the world is! Which you created in your thoughts.
The grand master of almost all the issues, which pulls you away from achieving your dreams is the fear. Fear of being judged, fear of rejections, fear of success and also the failure itself. Fear of everything is the root cause of the failure of life utterly.
Be confident enough to visualize your goals and the assumptions are good but know when to stop and act accordingly.
If all these obstacles are not in the list of your issues then you are so ahead of the rest of the world and closer to your dream world. Just keep going no matter what. If you come across any self-doubt,
Check the above obstacles and analyze in which phase you are in?
Once if you realize your issue, you know the answer. There is only way is not to avoid anything that matters but go through it by developing the skills that are necessary to solve with consciously.
Know that you will not be motivated every day. Even if you are not inspired for yourself, think of loved ones and the surrounding people. They need you. They need your unique gift, they need your fresh perspective on life that lift their soul, they need you and you need them. We need each other. So what is stopping you?
You don’t have valid reasons to stop but you have enough responsibilities to take steps and work hard to achieve your dreams. You are matter to this planet and each idea of yours can change the course of the future. So, what is stopping you?
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