9 Signs your soulmate is thinking of you (Research-based)

By: Naveen B

The fact is, we humans are always thinking about someone else—whether we’re thinking about a woman or a man or a spouse or boss or friend or foe.

Somebody is always in our thoughts, and so do we in theirs, irrespective of any soulful connection.

However, it takes a special kind of energy and vibration that ignites the positive emotions in our bodies, and rarely it could be a person to whom we are deeply connected; or subconsciously manifest.

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And that could be our soulmate. Realizing the signs your soulmate is thinking of you can be almost impossible unless you have mastered your self-consciousness.


Can you feel when your soulmate is thinking of you and can you feel your soulmate before you meet them?

Yes, it is possible. But it requires a high conscious state and deep awareness to pay close attention to your higher self in order to feel everything.

The more you become sensitive to nature and the nature of its existence, the better (deeper and clearer) you will feel the life around you.

Only then you will be able to open up your high spirit and gain access to a different dimension of your mind.

If you really want to feel not just your soulmate, but everything that you want to manifest, then you should be in a meditative mode all the time.

At least there should be clarity in your thoughts, purity in your soul, and be in touch with your intuition every moment.

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How to know if your soulmate is thinking of you and manifesting you?

The signs your soulmate is thinking of you aren’t always obvious and may take time to realize.

This purely depends on your awareness state. But, when they’re there, they’re there all the time. A common example is noticing interesting coincidences and synchronicities. 

Did you ever think about someone you liked? Then, almost immediately, a family member or friend contacts you and unknowingly invites you to the same function your soulmate is attending.

These little signs from the Universe may also come in the form of symbols that you might recognize and might become reality if you respond to them soon.

In this post, I have written some interesting signs your soulmate is thinking of you. All these are based on intuition. However, these depend on your belief, faith, and awareness.

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Signs your soulmate is thinking of you

How to know if your soulmate is thinking of you and manifesting you 9 Signs your soulmate is thinking of you (Research-based)

Longing is an innate human desire. We’re created to seek it, and when we find the person of our affections, our spirits are lifted — bolstered by strength, renewed by passion, and soothed by love.

We have every reason to expect this to be the case, and yet, so many of us feel alone and unfulfilled.

Research into human psychology tells us that the longing for romance and a partner isn’t unique to humans. Many animals, from dogs and cats to dolphins, have reported the same longing for companionship and affection.

So why don’t we humans find our soulmates?

The answer, according to science, is that our third eye is blind to what we don’t see.

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Our instinctive search for love comes without an awareness of what we’re looking for, or where we should look. We’re not aware of our subconscious cues that signal the presence of our true love.

and How to know if your soulmate is thinking of you?

Here is the list of 9 signs your soulmate is thinking of you that will help you realize them.

1. Intuitively, you know it and feel it.

What is the best way to know when your soulmate is thinking about you? You probably won’t know, but you’ll know. That’s called “Intuition.”

“You feel a warmth inside,” says relationship psychologist Linda Mintle, Ph.D., author of “I Married You Not Your Family: And Nine Other Relationship Myths That Will Ruin Your Marriage”

“It may be a feeling of excitement or a deep, relaxing sense of contentment. Some people even feel a tingling sensation or warmth in their palms. The feeling is so strong that it makes you wonder if it’s coming from your own body.”

You may feel energized or motivated to start something new, such as a new relationship.

Or you may wake up refreshed and energized, even though you went to bed tired.

Or you may just feel calm as if life is getting easier, even though things may be stressful.

“If you’re in a relationship and you suddenly feel a rush of energy, that’s a sign that your soulmate is thinking about you,” says Mintle.

2. You get a recurring dream that signifies some mystical and soulmate connection.

For thousands of years, cultures all over the world have experienced dreams or waking visions of loved ones who have passed over to the other side. And for centuries, this phenomenon has confused scientists.

So, what does it mean when have that recurring dreams?

The answers lie, in part, in the brain, and more specifically, in the limbic system, a collection of structures deep inside the brain.

“The limbic system evolved to help us survive,” says Dr. Lisa Miller, a professor of psychology at the University of West Florida. “In the past, our limbic system would be activated when we’re in danger.

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Now, when it’s activated, it’s something negative, like death, loss, or separation. So the dreams are a way of processing this as a form of soulful connection.”

The limbic system is also responsible for what psychologists call the “love hormone,” oxytocin, which our bodies produce when we’re around a partner. Oxytocin also plays a role in bonding between mothers and babies.

“When we have oxytocin released, we feel a sense of deep connection,” says Miller.

When we have oxytocin released, we feel a sense of deep connection.

But does this mysterious connection actually exist?

Research suggests that it can. One study carried out at the Center for neurobehavioral Genetics at UC San Francisco found that people with high oxytocin levels were more likely to dream about their partners (and vice versa).

“In the study, people who had high levels of oxytocin were significantly more likely to dream about their partner,” says Miller.

“These dreams were characterized by loving feelings, especially feelings of comfort, security, and closeness.” So, all these studies show you are thinking of your soulmate as much as they are thinking of you.

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3. You randomly experience a deja vu about your soulmate.

Ever wonder why your heart skips a beat when you see or feel someone? Or you find yourself thinking about an old friend or a person you are in love with and haven’t spoken to in years?

You’re also probably aware that your mind isn’t always a reliable predictor of what’s to come. Maybe you’ve dreamed of your soulmate. Or, more recently, you’ve experienced déjà vu about him or her.

Many people believe these kinds of experiences point to deeper, more meaningful connections. But is it fate? Or is just your mind playing tricks on you?

Dejà vu is the feeling that you’ve already experienced something before, even if you haven’t.

Why do people experience déjà vu?

A 2013 study in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: General shows that déjà vu is triggered when your brain tries to predict what is coming next. Researchers took 19 people and gave them a list of 20 words. One word in the list was the word “hello.”

The researchers asked the participants to read these words in random order and report whether they’d encountered the word before. Sure enough, participants were more likely to say they recognized “hello” in a word list that featured words they hadn’t heard before.

“When people see a familiar word, they can’t help noticing it, even if they haven’t encountered it before,” says study author Phil Johnson, PhD, of the Department of Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.

Why “hello”? According to Johnson, this is a common word used in everyday conversation.

So are déjà vu experiences meaningful?

Experts believe they may be, at least for some people. “Deja vu is a window into the unconscious mind.

So, it’s no surprise that you experience such magical Deja vu about your soulmate. It’s one of the possible signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

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4. There is an experience of peaceful and soulful warmth within you.

Have you ever stood in a room alone and just felt that warmth that brings out the best in you?

It could be a sign that the person interacting with you is just a subconscious process. And most often, those feelings of warmth were directed at you instead of being directed elsewhere.

That’s exactly what happens when your soulmate is thinking about you and is radiating that love toward you directly without trying to get something from you in return.

This power is called intuitive love and was given to humankind by the divine force. Specifically for use in connecting one another in the form of love messages.

When that happens, you genuinely feel happy and peaceful. And also the feeling of divine love creates a soulful warmth within you. And feel more connected to your soulmate wherever he/she is.

5. You constantly think about them and feel their presence.

One seems to enter a new stage of life with a new awareness, beauty, energy, and fulfillment. Another seems to experience a spiritual transformation accompanied by a strengthening of emotional connections with others.

Some people are brilliant at detecting love and feel their soulmate’s presence regardless of their meeting.

That’s because of their receptive nature and better connection with their intuition. This is why they feel connected to their soulmates even if they haven’t spoken in years or even if they didn’t meet them yet.

So, one of the true signs your soulmate is thinking about you is when your thoughts turn to them frequently and when you feel like they’re looking forward to something great. Therefore, the key to feeling a soulmate is being aware of the signals they’re giving off.

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6. They send a message out of the blue.

When someone is in love with you, they want you to know it. This isn’t a romantic cliche — in fact, it’s probably the number one reason people break up. Of course, sometimes they just don’t feel comfortable telling you directly.

That’s where the indirect way of letting someone know how you feel comes in handy.

Whether it is email, text, or a sudden phone call, all these are the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

Whether the message is happy or sad, glowing or cynical, you are the center of their universe. They are overflowing with emotion and will do anything to make you happy.

Love messages come in many forms — some unexpected, some expected. But there is one form of the message we all recognize: the phone call or text message out of the blue.

The reasons why someone, especially your soulmate, might reach out to you that way can vary.

Maybe they’re concerned about your well-being, or they’ve been thinking about you and wanted to get in touch. Maybe, on the other hand, they’re just bored and figured you deserved a little attention.

While it’s a rare scenario, it’s entirely possible your soulmate is trying to tell you something. Most times, though, you’ll end up just being relieved they reached out to you. A Love Message That Can’t Be Missed

successfully selecting a soulmate is understanding your own needs and compatibility with theirs. It’s not easy but if you are committed it can be rewarding.

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7. They Send You Visual Cues.

When someone is in love, they’re acutely aware of all their soulmate’s behaviors. It’s sometimes hard to remember, but a potential partner’s actions aren’t random — they’re actually a form of communication.

A romantic partner typically communicates through body language, tone of voice, and subtle gestures.

While it’s natural to feel a little self-conscious about reading your partner’s cues, it’s important to pay attention to them.

Because they are telling you a lot about your relationship. Especially these are signs your soulmate is thinking of you and manifesting you.

8. They consciously send you signals.

When your soulmate is thinking about you, that person is usually putting a lot of effort into their thought process. And manifest their love into energies and soulful vibrations.

Then send you those signals consciously through various mediums, for example, psychic signs such as dreams and intuitive messages.

And, as other real-world, mediums such as following on social media, sending text messages, or trying to meet you personally.

 Signals are powerful psychological banners that your soulmate sends you to acknowledge.

If you pay close attention to them, they’re all practical and you experience them every day in your life. But we often ignore them because we are not in complete consciousness to understand those universal signs.

Each signal represents its own unique meaning purely in the form of spiritual love — these signals show you matter deeply to them and passionately invite you to consider them and their chosen one.

This happens often enough that you can count on it. When your soulmate is thinking about you, the energy is so strong it almost feels like they’re looking right at you. It’s also possible to sense how they feel about you through their actions.

The only thing is it depends on you to perceive them. If you are open to the universe and manifest your thoughts through your actions, you will eventually be in sync with everything that connects to you.

When you connect to yourself and to the universe, then the signs your soulmate is thinking of you become very obvious, as we’re all connected to nature and the nature of its existence.

9. You don’t see or feel any signs. (They are everywhere)

The best thing is that this happens all the time. It’s like being in a dream where you can control everything.

You don’t have to wait for signs that someone loves you or missed you. It just happens.

The depth of feeling you get when someone really loves you is worth more than money ever could be. Just know that soulmates are thinking of you, whether or not you feel it.

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